Fwb going through divorce advice

Has anyone else had a fwb who was actively going through divorce? I really like this person and we have talked for a bit and met twice and are planning to see each other tomorrow. I noticed they have been talking less and they still seem interested in me but I feel like I need more reassurance that they’re ready to see me tomorrow without sounding needy.

People have told me in the past to give him a chance and easy on him since going through a divorce ( he’s currently separated and doesn’t live with ex) is hard which I understand. I can’t tell if he’s biting off more than he can chew and I really don’t want him to bail on me but at the same time I have set my night up to be fine for if he doesn’t see me. I was just ready to take our relationship to the next level.