Having zero ethics when it comes to dating will massively benefit a man

Sex / Gender / Dating

As a 31 year old man, I've had both short-term and long-term relationships with women in the United States, Asia, and Europe. I would add South America to that list, too, but god damn I was lazy as shit learning Spanish.

I believe having little to no ethics in the dating world can objectively benefit a man. If you simply don't give a shit about social mores, your results will proverbially launch into the atmosphere.

I'll list a few examples:

Age gap relationships:

I've dated dozens of American women in the 19 - 25 range, despite having a greater "power imbalance" over them. My dating life skyrocketed in Milwaukee and Chicago in my late 20s (e.g. 27 - 29). A majority of the women I dated were still in college and incredibly inexperienced in life.

I'd 100% use my life experiences, crazy shit I've done at her age, etc to make me seem like a cool guy.

While a majority of my relationships were short-term (longest was six months), I still had no issues getting laid when I wanted. Compare this to the average man today who is struggling in the dating world.

Being a "passport bro":

At 29, I grew bored of the 9-to-5 and left my cushy position as a software engineer to become a freelance technical writer. Since I saved up a ton of money, but had little revenue coming in starting off, I traveled to countries like the Philippines, Thailand, Colombia, and Peru.

My dating life was more insane abroad than in the US.

I had to work my ass off to get laid in Chicago/Milwaukee, but internationally, girls seemed to fall in my lap in Cebu City and Bangkok. It was nuts. I had dates lined up virtually every day of the week to no end. I've slept with so many Asians that I couldn't count.

Yeah, they were hoping for something long-term, but I couldn't care less about that.

Hell, even when I traveled to the Netherlands for a month, I felt like I had an easier time dating there than in the US.

Cheating:

I cheated on my girlfriend in Milwaukee and my girlfriend in the Philippines. Honestly, I didn't feel any remorse or guilt. Easy as that.

In the Philippines, I simply grew bored of Cebu City and wanted to experience Manila. I knew they had a 15 million population with a ton of hotties lounging about on Tinder, FilipinaCupid, etc.

My girlfriend at the time was distraught since foreigners have a reputation in the Philippines. I explained to her that I wouldn't cheat and I simply wanted to check out the biggest, most famous city in the Philippines. After relenting, she let me go.

Of course, I did, but that's beside the point.

After returning, she kept questioning me until I simply grew bored of the Philippines as a whole and traveled back to the United States so I could nomad across South America.

In conclusion:

It's no secret I have zero ethics when it comes to dating. Then again, there have been zero social repercussions. The worst I've experienced was my girlfriend in Milwaukee tell me her dad "didn't like me". That's it.

Posted May 5, 2025, 2:03 AM UTC

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