“It’s not me, it’s them” your the problem.

Okey what I’ve noticed about narcissistic parents or even mothers are they are so quick to tell people “it’s not me, it’s them” when it’s really them, they will absolutely pick and bully one child until they want to leave and are ready to kick them out so fast but then it’s onto the next child they want to bully. Then people/ other narcissists want to be on their side with this whole idea of it’s just the other child’s fault when it’s really the parent for not having enough respect for the other child or teaching the child right from wrongs without being a damn bully. Just makes no since, it makes me angry. Everyone wants to see what the narcissistic parent does good but want to ignore the bad, and how they failed their Childrean or their one child.