"There is someone out there for everyone"...yeah and he fucking died

Vent/rant- I'm just blunt at this point. "But but but you can find someone else. You can love again" NO! No means no means NO. I found my person, he died. 3 years later I have zero desire! I truly never will! My husband was my true everything. I wish people would stop being so insensitive and pushy on this topic. I just wish that my no could be respected. People are so damn afraid of death and widowers make them uncomfortable I have noticed. Absolutely no hate to those who want to find someone again btw, this is just my Personal experience, opinion and my view.