My (now ex) girlfriend had to break up with me because of her homophobic dad 😠[Relationships] [Rant]
A few days ago, my now ex girlfriend(≤14F) broke up with me(≤14NB), because her highly homophobic dad went through her phone while she was showering, told her she was a disgrace, and said to break up with me. Before anyone says anything about 'keep it just at school' she goes to a different school to me, and has since last year.
I am completely heartbroken, as she was my first real gf/jf (I'm neptunic - more on that at the end) - I 'dated' a boy when I was 3 but that doesn't really count does it?
Anyway, I have been wanting to tell my parents about not being straight (or cis, for that matter), so when we started dating just over 2 weeks ago, I was like 'Perfect! I'll leave it until we've been dating for at least 3 months, and then I'll come out, and my parents won't dismiss it as 'She's too young to know'' (I use they/she pronouns so I honestly don't mind too much if I don't tell my parents I'm NB for a while). This would be really horrible, as there are many other openly bisexual, pansexual and even a couple lesbians in my year, who, even though I wouldn't consider dating them now, might in future. Sorry for bad phrasing.
FOR NEPTUNIC AND URANIC HATERS: NEITHER ARE ATTEMPTING TO PUT ENBY PEOPLE BACK IN THE BINARY. I DON'T KNOW WHERE THIS RUMOR CAME FROM. On a calmer note, neptunics are people who like everyone but males. Uranics are people who like everyone but females.
Posted May 5, 2025, 2:04 AM UTC