Similar groups for mlm?

I joined this sub a whiiiile ago when I thought I was a lesbian, and have long since realized I'm actually a gay trans man (for the most part), but I hang around bc this group is inclusive and very chill, especially about trans people. However I'd like to join some groups that are mlm focused, but still trans friendly and was wondering if anyone possibly has recommendations before I go in blind and get bombarded by transphobia. We all know how cis men can be 🙃