Dating in NOVA for single 31F

Hi, I’m a single 31F and wondering where are all the singles hangout (male). I’ve been on Bumble and Hinge but there are no help since most of the guys either not know what they want or just looking for someone to hookups, even when they stated that they’re looking for a long term relationship. I’m looking for someone who’s intentional about a relationship but it’s just hard these days… I don’t really drinks so I don’t go to bar or club and I don’t think those places are great for meeting someone with a serious mindset

Any tips?

P.S I’m not bad looking, 5’4” and 110lbs