AIO in this situation or what? i need advice please...
Hello community of redit, first of all sorry for my english mistakes i cant think right plus im typing way too fast, second of all this post is the reason why i got into redit i need adivce.... so here it goes....
I've been with an amazing woman and i am 100% convinced that she is the love of my life and i love her to death we have been together for 11 months now and im sure she loves me too but life hasnt been the best for both of us recently but our relationship is great otherwise, the issue here is while we were randomly talking on the phone she mentioned that she was so tired of life and work all that stuff and i was like "thats totally understandable i could say the same 100%" making sure to listen and to comfot her, we kept talking and as the conversation went through she mentioned something along the liens of "if i had a way out i would always take it" refarring to life itself not to our relationship, i was stunned and very shoked and asked her what she meant by that and asked her if she is talking about life itself she confirmed that she was talking about life itself and the only way that she hasnt done it yet (offing herself) was that she didnt have the guts to do so,,
when she said these stuff i kept thinking about our relationship and now im stuck i feel like she would choose death over me and that for some reason i am not making her happy enough i mean i totally understand that life is a bitch but to give up on yourself like that???? i mean is that normal? she also mentioned that if she asked all her friends they would say the same thing (choosing death over life) and that she isnt changing her mind about that at all.......
now the thing is i love her more than anybody else idk what i would do without her and im scared later on that if she gets the gutts she would do it and leave everything behind not thinking of me and to be fair she said "if i would do it the only one id think about would be you but i would do it anyways".......
so redit help me out here what should i do i beleive if i have the chance i will be meeting her tomorrow to talk to her about this i will be suggesting to see anyone to help with this issue and if she refused i might end it because i cant just be in a relationship were if she got the chance she would choose death over me....
sorry for the long post im just looking for any advices at all, I will be deleting that in a couple of days.
more info she is my first everything and im her first everything as well keep in mind our ages are M21 and she is F25.
Posted May 5, 2025, 2:08 AM UTC · locked