Do I want to....

Celebrate mothers day on Sat or Sun next week? I'm using this space as a sounding board. May 10th is Mexican mothers day, so I'm thinking I'll celebrate my mom that day. But what should I do for myself? Go out with friends? Spend the day self-caring? My "partner" ruined my valentines day so there's no way I'll spend the day with him. My kids are 5 and 4 and pretty clingy to me so whatever I choose, will only need to be a few hours at most. Bleh.