Aitah?

Aitah for wanting to leave my spouse, they're dealing with injuries from a work incident. Has had surgery twice once for disk replacement and shoulder surgery. They were let go over a year now and going through workman's comp cases. They sit at home and mess with "their" projects don't really help with the house stuff or do shopping while I am now working a full time job and a part-time job. I asked for a foot rub and no. My foot hurts after working my part time job. I am so mad.