Grandmother is in the hospital

Grandma has been in the hospital for two weeks now, and no one in the family considered telling me. They’ve been visiting her and talking to each other about her condition, but no one spared a moment of their valuable time to inform me and we live next door and in the same houses!

Being left out like that doesn’t help at all with me trying to accept them, not to mention how horrible they have been in the last 20 years