new dom feeling discouraged

Hi. basically ive been here for three months so idk if that still means i’m new but damn almost all of my mutuals who have been doing findom already have reached milestones like getting a $1k send or finding whalesubs or getting dedicated subs yet i haven’t. idk what i’m doing wrong especially bc my engagement on my X account is doing so well. I understand it takes time but seeing your friends reach their milestones within weeks of doing findom kinda sucks. most of the time i don’t compare myself but this is just one of those days 🫠