Do you believe that sx creates more pain in relationships than so?

Because a part of so can be harmony, long-term stability, getting along, care.

While sx is more about chemistry, obsession, peak experiences, tension, lust, polarity.

Do you believe that this is wrong or do you believe that sx creates the more painful relationships?

For example: I often attribute these "We just can't be together, the pain is unbelievable, but it just doesn't work, because we are the way we are" songs to sx while I would believe that so would put much more effort into somehow making it work, while sx may also FEEL like they do, but since sx is more about that raw intensity there's also more of "But we just can't change", because changing or compromising your own self would naturally also destruct the peak intensity in the relationship.

Raw material clashing, merging, melting, seperating, is more intense than refined materials that were made to fit each other.