guy i’m seeing isn’t very touchy?

i’ve gone on 6 dates with this guy (26M) and he made me his gf (23F) after our last hangout. hes never had a gf before or sex and i was his first kiss. hes very shy and career oriented. when we hung out i made the first move for the kiss then he kept going and wouldnt stop kissing. but his hands they never touch my boobs or my ass. when we cuddle he’s never felt me up anywhere. i have to put his hand on myself for him to touch it a bit. but idk if he rlly wants to? also i rubbed his dick and he didn’t want to take it out of his pants. i layed my head next to it and felt it up had my titts out near it and he was hard but would laugh when i rub it. i asked him if he feels uncomfortable he said no. i asked him if he liked it and he said he doesn’t not like it. i’m just confused ive hinted towards him pulling it out but he doesn’t seem to want to. i don’t want to rush for sex i just wanted to feel it properly. i’ve never had a guy be so reserved with me. is this normal for inexperienced men? every other guy would go crazy. like i see some switch in them that makes them rlly horny but i feel like im more horny than he is. do u think he could be gay?