I hate the normalization and defense of porn

I was just reading a post from a girl who had asked her boyfriend to stop watching, he promised he would, but didn’t. She was understandably upset, feeling what all of us here feel. But the comments were gross, attacking her for being unreasonable, telling her she was a horrible girlfriend, that she needed to work on herself, just on and on.

How did we get to this point in society? I get some people are totally fine with it, and that’s great for them. But why are we condemned for it if we’re not? Why are we treated like some kind of freakish beings for simply not wanting our s/o to get off to other women?

I just don’t get it.