"You don't own me, I'm not just one of your many toys"🎶

This is a vent but also a fuck you and story about two strong as woman getting together to stopping an arrogant piece of shit to get what he wants.

Basically I have had this sub for a few months, he was a needy brat but decent, respecful. During our time he was with other doms and I didn't mind I supported it, I also tried help him finding a dom irl etc cause knew he wanted that. He also told me about his first findom.

Fast forward, two days ago, this sub who is also a maledom put up a post in regards to her on his dompage, this isnt something he had done before, so it intrigued me. Now he can humiliate himself om his page, fun. He tributed me and I told him to post a pic of himself with my name on him on his dompage and so he did. This dom saw that and reached out to me.

I think she originally thought I did it to make her jelous but she very quickly realised it wasnt the case, I just wanted to fuck with him lol. We started talking, she said I was interesting to her, cause usually this guy vanish after pnc but he stayed for me. Then she said she is actually more of a sub and she asked if I would be up for a dynamic, I was exhilarated I liked her a lot from how she spoke and we are very likeminded.

I asked and she told him what had happened in between them two, she said all the time thar she didnt wanna persuade me etc but I kept asking cause wanted to know, and I am glad I did. I tried to find ways to excuse his behaviour in my head cause the picture she potrayed wasnt the same as for me. Not that I didnt believe her but what I do is I usually take both sides then make up my mind. He had known she was sick but got angry cause he didnt get attention from her, like she owes him communication. In a message he also confessed to being a narcisist, but at the time I thought that maybe it was just him saying stuff in anger. I of course didnt like that he had acted this way and said to him I can keep him but that ill keep my eyes on him and he stayed.

Yesterday he asked what we had said about him I said it breifly and he then said that he personally had felt he did no wrong. I told him he did do wrong and explained it to him, I wasnt sure if it was on purpose or not, cause I have handled needy people before and know that they dont always mean to be rude, like its an insecurity and its easier to be angry on someone else. He kept saying that I was wrong and that it wasnt him being needy and he still disagreed. I told him she doesn't owe him communication, yes not having communication can be disrespectful but not in her case since he knew but that either way she doesnt owe him. Then he said this to me

"No one owes me anything? " - I don't believe that. If I have proved my submission and you are a Good Dom. You owe me communication. A random Dom might now communicate but you owe me communication."

He really just said it outright that I OWE him communication. That made me feel utterly disgusted, used and violated in so many ways. All this time he had felt I OWE him my communication, all this time I was nothing but his object.

There is one thing expecting communication and as a sub you are allowed to feel bad if your dom doesnt withheld that, also not communicating can be disrespectful but its never OWED. Anyways after that I told him I didnt want him anymore and then he kept like trying to manipulate me, calling us dumb etc I blocked him.

He lost us both and tbh thats the biggest fuck you there is. I know he was prob throwing a tantrum in his room afterwards. Good luck mate finding a dom that would accept that.

We are so strong now, we have only known eachother for 2 days but we are already tight AF and I can't help to think that is making him even more pissed

Woman stick together 🖤 and no I didn't owe you shit 🖕