advice on looking /playing with a dom for new subs who have entered the community

Hey, so I’m fairly new to the scene. I’ve realised now that being new brings many doms to my DMs who want to shape me into theirs ect, and while I’ve been polite and spoken to them I can’t help but feel some of them are just looking to take advantage of the fact I’m new, I’m not completely clueless and have done research into the dom/sub relationship. But some just don’t even take a flat out no for an answer and relentlessly message me after a day so I’ve had to block a few🙃

I was just wondering if people could give me a list of red flags to look out for because although I have done research and spoken to a couple of experienced doms/subs im not 100% on everything and the more advice the merrier. Plus some doms really try to get you to believe they have your best interest at heart then attempt to push a limit of yours and then ghost you so I’d rather not have that again😊

I’ve spoken to another new sub who’s had similar experiences. It kinda feels like fighting an uphill battle sometimes. I’m going to try to to a few munches soon but I’m feeling extra cautious now.😩

So please, feel free to leave a list of 🚩 for whenever getting to know a dom because although I have some idea of what’s right and wrong I’m sure there’s things i wouldn’t have even considered or just never crossed my mind.