No family support when I'm going to have surgery

Hi everyone. I'm going to probably have bunion surgery next month but my family will not be helping me at all. This is the reason why.

T My younger sister put me in an adult day care center about a year ago and I absolutely hated it. I was way too young, it was very loud, smelly, boring, and my doctors kept changing. My driver made a pass at me.

Before I left I made sure I had other insurance coverage and it was better bc I have full coverage now plus some free transportation. No premium or copay and all my meds are completely covered.

I'm not surprised at my family's behavior, well a little at my son's, but my siblings have no compassion unless it's about money or animals.

So anybody experienced this. What did you do? What would you do?