Birth control advice

I was diagnosed with PCOS after suspecting I had it for a while bc of my symptoms. My main concerns are hair growth, skin/acne, period pain, etc. I’ve been on birth control in the past for short times for other reasons and I always have to stop bc of side effects. Specifically with mental health. I have adhd and ocd and birth control just really messes with my emotional state (for example, increased irritability/anger, and depression). I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions of either specific birth control brands that have worked for them or alternatives?