AITAH for the way me and my friend ended our relashionship?

me and my friend of 5 years recently ended our friendship after having a huge argument. hes saying it was my fault because i gaslit him when i didn't and lied to him when i almost never did that.

i could see this coming for a while though cause our lifestyles didn't really match up but also because he would start arguments over the dumbest things and when i would try to end them he would call me an idiot or another insult (usually a curse word) and leave the call or party. during our last argument he was super pissed with me cause i accidentally killed him rainbow six siege and after that we switched games to apex, my headphones weren't charging that day (i later found out it was cause of the charger that i was using) he bought me these headphone and they were 100$ now i do appreciate the buy as they are great headphones.

i regret the what i said because we were already arguing over it and when i said whatever he said "no this is not a whatever you need to find out what the problem is" i responded with "well I'm going to make it a whatever-" he then cut me off and proceeded to insult me for being lazy and other things that i don't want to mention cause i just think there not ok to say.

before he even gave me a chance to speak and defend myself he ended our call (i will admit i didn't try to contact him back after he did so) now for those wondering what i was going to say before he cut me off it was "cause i don't want to break them further if there is a problem" now the reason i was going to say this is cause i am clumsy and often don't pay much attention to what I'm doing and accidentally breaking things is my strong suit.

so AITAH for the way this happened?