M4F Thoughtful Connection, Kinky Chats

34M Well educated, well informed, well adjusted.

Tall, good looking, kind, funny, amazing, blahblahblah - but, for all my blessings, my life choices have put me in an isolating position.

• No coworkers besides the occasional employee/contractor
• Work evenings and weekends; free during normal working hours
• My current hobby/obsession is a small scene where I don't want to be dating
• I have gotten one match on a dating app in 2025 (par for the course)
• Ended a situationship 2yr ago to create space for a serious relationship - for which I am still waiting (and starting to wonder why)

C'est la vie.

I don't expect to find my life partner here, but nor am I looking for ONS.

1. I'm looking for diverting chats with eccentric and interesting people
2. I'm looking for dirty chats and sharing fantasies

If you're intrigued by NSFW ideas like this or (slightly more self aware) this; if you want to discuss the meaning of life or the book you're reading; or if you just want to talk smack with someone...

Hmu.

(Please don't send a photo. I don't care what you look like and prefer a little mystery.)