45 [F4M] #Los Angeles #SoCal - Are you capable of fantastic sex and an emotionally vulnerable friendship?

Summer is upon us and after a lot of thinking, reflecting, contemplating, pondering, I’m ready for a passionate, uplifting season of fucking (and friendship).

I posted an ad back in March and honestly the responses were overwhelming, but they also were mostly low effort, unimaginative, or lackluster. I met a few men that were great, but things didn’t align quite right. If you are eager and excited after you read about who I am and what I’m looking for, AND you fit my preferences, by all means show yourself off!

Here is what I’m looking for and a little of who I am:

1. Do you feel uncomfortable sharing your feelings? When a lover gives you affection and care, does it make you withdraw? Are you hesitant to tell your lover how you feel about them? If you're even slightly (mentally) nodding your head here in agreement, we're not a match. I want a palpable emotional connection with fucking and that's non-negotiable. I am seeking a man that will be a real friend to me, someone that isn’t scared of emotional vulnerability. Even if I am in a content DB marriage that I am not planning to leave, I don't want sex without emotional intimacy.

2. A lover is not a lover without fantastic sex. If you know how to fuck a woman well, that's a first step. The second is your dick game is STRONG (literally and figuratively). I am a highly sensual lover with a strong libido that has the time, resources, and energy for some amazing fucking, and I need someone similar to fuck me until I'm in a daze.

3. Physically, I do gravitate towards slim to medium builds. A lanky man with a soft stomach is my idea of heaven. I don't care too much about height, as I am quite short. Anyone 5'9 and up is considered tall in my book and I'll entertain anyone up to 6'5. Beyond being short, I have a curvy/chubby/muscular body and have dark hair and eyes. I am not slim, definitely thick, so if slim is your preference this isn't it. I'm also Latina, but I am attracted to White men. Pale skin or freckles are things I don't have but love on a man. Oh, and as for ages. I am in my mid-40s and seeking someone around my age or slightly older (around 40-55ish).

4. I LOVE a man that can teach me things. If you consider yourself to be a little nerdy, wear glasses, are into the sciences or the arts, I am all ears. Intelligence and the ability to talk about what you know is extremely important to me. I don't want to fuck a dull dick. I'm fairly intelligent, some say witty, and I want to meet a man who relishes in critical thinking, problem solving, and using his dry sense of humor to make me laugh. I'm not so into dad jokes or toilet humor. Oh, and this probably doesn't need to be said, but I'm not into conservative men that are living their best life under this administration.

5. Last but not least logistics are critical. I've met too many men who are tied down to their home because they don't have reasons to be out of the house when their wives are there. Or they are just ultra busy with work, caregiving, and homelife. I like planning meets with at least a few days notice, and I would like to meet about once a month for 3-4 hours. I don't think this is asking for anything extravagant, so if you are wondering if you can pull this off, I'm not for you. I have a fabulous career that gives me flexibility, as well as extracurriculars that allow me to be independent enough to be able to meet any day from mid-morning into early evening. Location-wise, please be within two hours of LAX during rush hour traffic (Westside, SouthBay, Long Beach, OC, and SGV would be particularly good places to be around).

If you have read this far and think you would be a good fit for me and I seem like a good fit for you, I'd love to hear from you. I'll reply to anyone that makes a sound case that they read my post and are a promising match. Thanks for reading!