AITHA for feeling ungrateful

AITHA my boyfriend (m34) and I (f30) have been together for 5 years. We have a 3 year old son together. So we’ve had 3 Mother’s Days together and 2 Father’s Day. The first Mother’s Day he was on deployment so he got me flowers and chocolate which was really sweet and I was appreciative. The 2nd Mother’s Day last year he got me flowers and made me breakfast and we went out to eat and I was appreciative but slightly jelly when all my other mom friends post all their gifts they got. And then this year he made me breakfast and let me sleep in but hasn’t even told me happy Mother’s Day… no flowers not even a card… his first Father’s Day I put underglow lights on his Harley. The second I got him a smaller gift a leather pack for his toiletries for his trips since he always complains that his old one is rough. It was engraved withe a sweet message. Also got a mount for his game controllers and headset with his last name on it . Should I say something ? I feel like that would be ungrateful for what he does do but it’s becoming less and less each year. He did clean the floors some and do the dishes today. But that’s really all. Would I be the AH for bringing it up. He’s not tight on money he makes more than I do and he gambles also so I know he has money…