18f question for the guys here

Hey everyone! I’m curious – have any of the guys here made friendships in this space? I’ve noticed that while there are quite a few posts from men, they often don’t seem to get as much attention or comments. It feels like most of the engagement is happening on women’s posts. Do you think the women might be hesitant to reach out to you guys? Just wondering! Do you think some women might hesitate to reach out because they've encountered unsettling direct messages in the past?