36 [F4M] #Minneapolis #Anywhere - Shy new sub looking for experienced Dom, monogamy and potential romantic connection is a must

I’ve posted a few times before, but this will probably be my last post. If you’re not looking a real, genuine, connection, then please don’t respond. First, let’s get looks out of the way: I’m 5’0” with a 34ddd chest, and a bit of a bubble butt. 145lbs. I’d like to be smaller but I still look quite petite as my weight is in my curves, I just have a softer tummy than I’d like. Maybe you could help me with fitness goals? Other than that, I’m conventionally attractive. Caucasian with big dark eyes. I do have a few tattoos and a septum piercing. I go between blonde and brunette seasonally, I also look a bit younger than other women my age.

Another thing I want to get out of the way: It is important to me that you have experience as a Dom, and understand the vulnerability of being a new sub. This is not just about sex to me, it is just as much psychological. I have almost no experience in the lifestyle myself, but just through talking to and spending time with a couple different Doms recently, I have come to realize just how vulnerable of a process this all is and I do require monogamy, especially if, and when, things get physical. I’d also like romance to be on the table, with a chance of lifelong partnership. If you’re someone who just never wants to have a girlfriend or get married, then you’re not the Dom for me. Along with hopefully getting married one day, ultimately comes the idea of starting a family. I used to want children, and I still do, but as I get older I realize I’d be happy with at least one child.

What I’m looking for: Just texting at first, slow burn flirting while we figure out how compatible we are. I’d like to get to know each other in a vanilla sense, such as hobbies, favorite restaurants, hopes, and dreams. Maybe even work up to phone calls. Sexting is okay too, as sex will hopefully be an important part of our relationship. I don’t consider myself to be needy or clingy but communication is important to me, if you’re going to be busy for a while day then just give me a simple heads up is appreciated.

I’d like to eventually get to a place where I am comfortable enough to meet in person, as I’m ultimately looking for something in real life. I’d prefer local but am open to long distance. I would like the goal to lean towards a 24/7 somewhat TPE dynamic, with rules and punishments, including spanking, corner time, and whatever else you see fit. It is important to me to maintain some of my individualism but ultimately I’d like to feel protected and cherished, but also owned, by you.

Three things I’d like to maintain:

1. My edgy/ feminine style. I like skinny jeans, skirts, and dresses, lace and velvet, darker colors. Sometimes I’ll dress more athletic, cropped sweatshirts, leggings, cute boots. I like to look classically put together, and am fine with my style being refined but not changed. If clothing control is an interest of yours, just keep that in mind. I’m not ruling it out but I’d like to be dressed like myself using pieces I already own, or new pieces that are in my style.

2. I want to open my own small business one day. I need someone that supports me in these endeavors, and gives me the freedom to do so.

3. I’m Wiccan. Celebrating the seasons is important to me, I read tarot, and do light spell work. Having the time to continue my practice is important to me. With that said, I will always support you spiritually even if Christianity is your path. My father’s family was Catholic while I grew up, so I am confirmed and raised in the church. My mother’s family has always leaned spiritual/ Wiccan.

Here’s the incomplete list of what I’m into: Anal, toys/ plugs, cock warming/ worship, face fucking, free use, orgasm control, groping, nipple/ breast play. Subtle public play like in the car for example. Spanking bare handed over the knee is preferred. Corner time, mutual masturbation, phone sex, sexting, praise. Light degradation such as being called naughty, slutty, pathetic, or desperate, nothing too extreme. I’m very sweet and sensitive so I draw the line at insulting my looks or intelligence for now, that would probably just hurt my feelings and cause me to shut down.

I’m sure there’s more I would be into as I’m a bit under experienced. Some of this I haven’t done, or done much, but I would like to try. I am open to more, as well as eager to hearing what you’re into. I get pleasure out of pleasing my partner.

Vanilla about me: I have a decent job, in fact I work two jobs because I like to stay busy. I love to read, and I’m currently trying to learn how to book bind. I make candles, collect vinyl records, watch campy horror movies, and play a bit of Nintendo Switch here and there. Mostly Zelda. I like to hike and camp. 420 friendly, and I drink alcohol but not to excess. Politically liberal.

Last but not least: I’d like to get pictures out of the way early immediately, as physical attraction is very important to me. Face is required.

I know this post is very long. As I put time into it, I’d prefer if you could put time into your response. I won’t reply to short messages that give me no sense of who you are. You can tell me the last book you read if you’d like. I should add that intelligence is a must for any potential Dom. Also, I am very shy when first getting to know someone 🙈 I usually open up fairly quickly though. Your ability to lead is important.