
So I 19F broke up with my boyfriend 22M after all he did to me. He still says “I don’t believe i treated you that bad and I hope one day you look back and realize it wasn’t that bad”

….

He:

-Blackmailed me 2 months into our relationship 

-He threatened to file for fraud over a gift he regretted buying me (because I got upset at him for joking about my religion)

-he made me cut off my friends then befriended them during a breakup just to tell me they’re talking badly about me and mocking me with old voice messages 

-when we got back together he said it was “mimicking” not “mocking” and it’s just the language barrier.

- he called me names and would raise his voice. He would literally say the most cruel things disguised just so I can’t complain. Instead of saying “you’re stupid” he says “this is stupid” instead of saying “you’re a slut” he says “okay go act LIKE a slut”.

-he asked me in an argument if I’m “autistic” and “don’t understand”. which actually upset me because I genuinely have doubts that I’m on the spectrum but getting diagnosed isn’t the best option for me.

- he made me unfollow all guys on instagram BUT kept his female military friends JUST for me to find out one of them wasn’t even in the military.

-One time I was crying and he mocked me

- one time I was trying to breakup with him and he got turned on and asked if I’ll still pleasure him as exes 

- last but not least..even after apologizing he doesn’t put in more effort! He used to give 100% then it went down until it’s 10% now and every now and then he goes back to 15-20%.

Even on our anniversary he planned and got nothing, a movie night would’ve sufficed but apparently these things were “old and boring”

-he literally barely sweet talks me or says sweet things anymore he just…exists 

What does he MEAN it wasn’t that bad….am I tripping?? Am i overreacting??

He said “I wish you didn’t do it over text” I was trying to talk to him earlier as you can see and even more the days before that he would just not respond?


AIO? he says “how he treated me wasn’t that bad”