Its depressing sometimes

Its depressing sometimes, the contineous thought that people hate me for how i look, and im not just overthinking, i know it , people literally judge you based on how you look, personally i never do, but some people do, i have observed it myself, like there was this girl who became our tenant and she saved my number with the name "cacca" which is a very bad word in her language, that was my first time talking to her and she didnt even know me, its real depressing sometimes knowing its not my fault the way i look , neither i chose to be like this, in this situation im clueless