for context, in slide 5, “gn” not written out is her trying to get under my skin and let me know she’s angry I fell asleep, which is why I replied “n”. 

without getting bogged down too much in details, my classmates and i attended a school event to celebrate the semester ending on Friday night. These typically run late and i don’t get home until 2:30 in the morning. I didn’t invite my girlfriend because it’s not a +1 type event and she constantly makes remarks like the ones in slide 2 about them and makes it known she thinks they are privileged assholes - why *would* i, even if it was something +1’s were brought to? i had, in no uncertain terms, told her friday night was *not* the night to hang out and that either saturday or sunday evening would be much better. and then she did what you see in the texts. 

any time ive spent away from her in the past six months - working, studying, with my family - has been met with this behavior, or worse, outright verbally abusive. 

my phone died while i was out and as soon as i charged it back up, i was met with the texts you see. i don’t know why, but i saw red, and the following morning i called her and told her that her behavior the past six months has been completely unacceptable and has conditioned me to feel bad about prioritizing myself, even if for one evening. it’s been destructive to me emotionally and probably professionally too. i told her that i needed a lot of room to be able to calmly consider whether i can continue this at all. 

she told me i’m completely misunderstanding and overreacting and that the bitterness is a measure of how difficult it is to be without me, and her love for me. that doesn’t change the fact it’s untenable and horribly negative. in any case, i had her primary set of keys so i dropped them at her parents’ house so that her retrieving them wouldn’t turn into a fight and i could maintain the space. I then continued on with my Mother’s Day prep / my sister’s college grad , as i describe in the texts. I crashed around 8 because I was exhausted and took a bad fall, needed to rest. then the last two slides happened. and for the record, I never misled her or said “let’s hang out” as she described in the last slide. 

AIO to my girlfriend’s constant bitterness towards any time spent apart? I tried to take space but I can’t.