I just can't believe it

so my sister and I were at our mom house earlier and while we were eating, she dropped the bomb that's she's 4 months pregnant . It got so silent for several minutes.

she gave birth last October to the cutest little guy and I love being an auntie, it's nice. But I did set boundaries the first time with her , how it's not my responsibility to be on call so I can babysit and stuff like that.

so when she asked me would I be there for the new baby and always helping , I had to reestablish those boundaries. I'm only gonna do what I'm comfortable with , nothing more nothing less. I'm child free for a reason.

anyway while I do feel a bit of happiness for her. I also think she's an idiot. she's pregnant by the same guy that kept cheating on her, they're still not stable , they argue left and right , he's not there for her, he barely takes care of his first kid. i just don't think it's cute to pop out kids left and right and not have a functional stable environment for them.

I'm trying to keep my judgment to myself , cause at the end of the day it's not my life .

but it's so hard to sit back and watch her make foolish decisions over and over and over.

• rant over 😮‍💨