I think about being single too much

Feeling lost and not to sure where to turn to?

(M/26)

This year I’ve just felt so disconnected from myself. I’ve noticed my drinking of a weekend has increased a lot, binge drinking usually of a Saturday. How much of an effect does this have on one’s personality and overall perception of life. I’ve been single for a year now, I wouldn’t say I’m bad looking and have a good personality but I just don’t feel like myself. Does sobriety help you reconnect with yourself ? Then I’m stuck with the argument of id love to meet someone but I’ve always met my ex relationships at bars etc so if I don’t go to bars how will I meet someone you know?

I put so much emphasises on relationships when there’s a lot more to life, I travel a lot and have a big social circle and see my friends but I constantly think about being single, It’s the direct of life I want to to head in and start manning some base movements…

How much do I have to have firgured out in order to attract someone and feel good about myself