Feeling Used After Intimacy — Has Anyone Experienced This Too?

This afternoon, my partner and I had a quick intimate moment. He finished really fast, just after a few pumps, so I thought he was satisfied. Later that night, we were already in separate rooms, getting ready to sleep. But suddenly, he came into my room asking for a blowjob...even though I wasn’t in the mood and didn’t want to.

It felt like he just really wanted to come again and saw me as the easiest way to get that release. I have this gut feeling he was looking at something on his phone that got him turned on, and instead of handling that by himself or even checking in with how I felt, he just came to me like I was there for his convenience. And the worst part? I went along with it even though I didn’t want to.

Afterwards, I felt off. Used. Like I didn’t matter in that moment....only his need did.

This isn’t the first time something like this has happened, and I’m honestly starting to feel confused and a little hurt. I don’t know if I’m overreacting, but it doesn’t sit right with me.

Has anyone else experienced something like this in their relationship? I’d really appreciate different perspectives, am I overthinking, or is this a valid concern?