[38/M] : Anyone else looking for long term, emotionally mature, and consistent pals?

I'm looking for someone to talk to through the day, definitely not constantly as we all have lives and it can get busy. So I prefer effective communication, not constant as I'd rather get a proper response when you can 😊. I love being open and vulnerable with the right person and just enjoy sharing experiences and past lore lol.

Alrighty now to the good stuff.

So I currently work as a veterinary assistant, and I'll be going back to school to become a vet tech. For now though I absolutely love my job and this is pretty much the happiest I've ever been working at a job. So I'll be sending all the cute animal pictures and selfies in my favourite scrubs. I would like someone to match and reciprocate this golden retriever puppy dog energy of mine 😆. And also he confident and comfortable enough to share selfies, ootd, and just general day to day happenings. It also hugely helps my aphantasia so I would appreciate anyone who loves pictures as much as I do 😊.

I'm also very nerdy, very chatty, have audhd + complex ptsd, all well managed(and appropriately medicated) so far XD. I'm also no contact with my birth family, and I've got a chosen one instead. I'm so vehemently childfree, and as a result of being cheated on in the past, I avoid talking to those in relationships to protect my own boundaries and peace. It's very rare for me to meet someone here who's married /in a relationship and repsects those boundaries. Plus I'm always open to being more than friends if the universe decides that's what it wants for us, which is another reason why I put this forward.

I have so so so so so so so many hobbies and interests and none of them based on gender. I enjoy all the cute things and all the badass things alike. I used to ride an race motorcycles, I love 3d printing, cosplay, Ren faires, PC games, coloring books, resin crafts, plants, weed (I use it to manage fibromyalgia), photography, tinkering with electronics, cars, anime, and so many things. I also have a cat, my own house, a sweet lil hot hatch and a life full adventures 😁.

I also wanna add that I enjoy and prefer voice /video calls and would love to meet someone who also prefers those to endless walls of text. But it's something we can do eventually :)