I am always coming up with great little ideas for mini events and great nights depending on what people are into. Virtually all of my ideas for any erotic get together, I actually try and cater to an ideal night for girls.
Naturally I’m a very respectful and passionate guy because that’s the way I’m wired. Don’t get me wrong, I can fuck hard and fast which you may enjoy, but I’m just not into a night catering to my own ego, disrespecting, spitting on you and treating you like shit etc. 
Other than what I’ve witnessed performing as a musician (before and after gigs) for 30 years, there were some BDSM nights I had checked out and there was one incident where I had to leave. Ever since I was a kid, I couldn’t watch or listen to a repetitive hurting such as whipping. At this BDSM night a woman was tied up and getting constantly whipped to the point I was getting (me…about 3 or 4 metres away) splashed with little bits of blood. 
Some people might read this and go “Oh you pussy”. If I wanted to (having done boxing also for about 13 years) I could do a lot of damage…but I’m just not wired like that. Knowing my luck, if I organised a BDSM night, all us guys would end the night probably in the watch house.
I do love (depending on the girl) some slippery play fighting and slippery sex.
Depending on funds, what donation would be asked for to determine how many of these ideas I could provide.  Also I’m not expecting too much interest from hot girls on here, because a lot of girls (as we know) are all about the money. So there may be 2 groups, depending on how confident the person is within themselves and also what they’re into.
So my latest idea is:

Location: An apartment on the Gold Coast with a busy bar downstairs (I’ll explain why) or a private room at a certain backpackers at Byron Bay which has a lot of legal mature tourists which everyone would love.

Tapas: I would love to serve not (cheezels or cheap pizza like some clubs) but nice tapas plates.

I would try and book a spot where the showers and toilets are well away or even separate from the room/play area for obvious reasons. 

Theme or no theme? In time I would like to acquire some cool clothes for both male and female to wear if they wish

With consent, an area where photos can be taken.

The night would be based on anticipation.

I say this because of all the experience I’ve had over the years, one of the most intense build ups was with a female friend who had come out of a long term marriage. To cut a long story short, we took our time to the point when we first touched each other it was just in a tantric like hug, breathing, sucking in the pelvic floor muscles, then breathing into each other’s mouth and within 5 minutes….we both pre-came….fully clothed!
So ideally it would be great to get an experienced tantra/yoga teacher to kick the night off…but not for too long.

Having people or couples to share some of their hottest intense sexual moments OR share what their unfulfilled fantasies still are.

I would like for an attractive sexy confident couple to demonstrate how they fuck.

There are a lot of couples that don’t allow kissing and I understand that, but for anyone that does….SPIN THE BOTTLE is another anticipation builder.

Maybe a baby pool filled with oil.

Some dares would be cool. Eg: 2 people (2 girls or a girl and a guy) go to the downstairs bar and pick up a willing great attitude girl and later a guy if desired.

A guy or girl or both get tied up, not just blind folded, but with earphones in as well with some erotic music of their choice while us people take turns at pleasuring them.

So these are some of the ideas I have for an intimate event. Let me know your thoughts or suggestions. Guys feel free to leave a comment, but what we are seeking in all honesty is ‘non stuck up females who are not about money’, so guys if you have female friends, pass this on. 
I’m sorry girls but you all know how males (including male animals) are wired with the ‘reproduce’ hormone and that has been taken advantage of for so many years. If you legitimately would like to come for a night of fun (same rules will apply as a swingers club “no means no”) and you probably won’t have to pay for anything. But for this event, it’s not a money making opportunity. 
So please give me your feedback everyone, of what you like and dislike about the ideas I have and suggestions are welcome.



Absorb this. Girls read carefully and feel free to leave feedback