When To Stop? NEWBIE DOM

I'm new to the scene and I've had absolutwly no success at all. And this is a path I want to take.. not jsut for the financial gain but for my own personal reasons. I've been open across many other platforms and haven't found anyone who was a troll or a scammer. And yet all the tiktok videos shows people getting AN ABUNDANCE OF SUCCESS and want to bank on that with an ebook. Any advice?