Don’t use little closure in situations to self deprecate

When a friendship or relationship ends abruptly, unexpectedly and even horribly… never allow the little closure you have to brew in your mind to the point where you are blaming yourself. It’s ok to reflect.. and learn on how to navigate situations in the future. But the idea of what did I do wrong.. how can I win them back.. or internalizing situations outside of your control is a never ending cycle of self destruction.

If you are a decent person in most situations you want to leave behind a relationship in good terms.. or try to “make up” and the idea of having enemies or people with poor taste of you it’s unsettling. Trust me. I know the feeling. But what is there to make up if nothing was there to begin with.

Stop. Destroying. Yourself. Over people who do not value you.

(Talking to myself as well by the way lol)