I hate the local dating scene

Not exactly conventionally attractive... have short hair and a little overweight and also taller than most men in sg

feels like i get extreme ends of: you are too tall, you are embarrassing me or those that just wanna fuck.

if not i get ghosted/ sexualised/ once i received a d!ck pic immediately after exchanging tele. if not would be the 'i was busy 🥺 but im back now' after they stop texting me for MONTHS.

my favourite story was when last year someone tried to hookup with me when he already was getting together with another girl. i was just a backup in case they didn't work out