18 [TF4F] #Online I need help with anal

Hey! I just bought my first butt plug and some anal relaxer. I thought I’d go straight for the plug but I’ve never even fingered myself so I think I’d start small and go there first lol. Can someone please call me and talk me through my first time I just want to make sure I’m doing it right and honestly I might just want someone to help me cum too. I’m really into gentle femdom so if anyone wants to be a little bossy I’m right here.