Any advice for queer friendship for a younger transfem?

Just moved here, 20 in juust over a month. I'm married in a long distance relationship for now until my wife moves out here in a year or so. Until then I definitely can't just be like, platonically alone right? But I feel like im in a very weird situation. Relocated here so no school friends to hang with. Not 21 so can't go to bars or clubs... so whats left. Support group social nights maybe twice a month and hope i make a connection there? I can definitely try my luck.

I think part of me is struggling because im from texas, and out there when you see another trans person y'all are just automatically friends, like its a survival thing right? But here in pdx I see other trans people and have to remind myself a: they probably have other queer friends already and b: they probably dont wanna lug around someone that cant drink or whatever yet lol.

Ultimately i'm just scared of being lonely and hope either somebody can give me reccomendations for where to find connections or if anyone of here wants to chat please reach out too :) ♥️