Does my old flame have feelings for me???
We have a very long and complex history, yes we were romantic, we dated briefly in college but it didnt work out. He was absolutely head over heels for me , for about 8 years of his life maybe more, and I was equally infatuated with him but our parents got in the way everytime. We live in different states now, but we started talking again almost a year ago now and we went from texting 2x a month to now 4-6 times a month and our convos extend a few days. We both had partners so I would try to cut off conversation after a while. There are some things here and there that make me question this.
- he has mentioned how he really enjoys talking to me
- he asked me out of the blue if I saw myself getting married in the future to my current bf
- he has reiterated how for a long time he didnt think he would ever get over me
- he playfully jokes around with me ( yes I joke back)
- he messaged me on his gf’s birthday… yes it was innocent but still that he thought of me on her day threw me for a loop
- playfully talks about all the things he did to impress me when we were younger
Are the feelings resurfacing??? I am not going to lie I think they have for me but I dont know if I’m being delusional…. He has since broken up with his gf in the past month and I dont know what to think
Posted Jun 3, 2025, 4:04 AM UTC