Is he avoidant or narcissistic?

I was in a LDR with a 33M. I traveled to visit him and was with him for 40 days in his house, our relationship was good but every time I asked him about the future of our relationship he was ambiguous sometimes saying that he want me permanently and then changing his mind saying I don't know what will happen in the future. I came back to my country and communication wasn't same as before visiting him. After three weeks he dissaperead, I contacted him and he replied saying I need time and space. Five months passed and he sent me a letter on my birthday saying he was and is still deeply in love with me, and if I'm with someone else he'd like to be friends. I replied that I'm not with anyone else. He dissaperead again and twenty days later he sent me his picture saying he misses me a lot, I replied and we talk for some minutes he was talking in a loving way and saying about marriage. I asked him if he was with someone he said not at all, he loves me and blah blah. In the end of talk he added he will text me later, he never did. Three months later I contact him to force him to end things with me he replied saying if he wanted that he would have done that long time ago and that he loves me and if he had gotten me pregnant all of his doubts might have dissaperead. I thought he just wants to impregnate someone and don't care with whom. I also asked him twice if he already had someone else but he denied it. Three months passed and three days ago I googled his name and learnt he is expecting a baby and that woman is seven months, that means when he was texting me and denying having a relationship he was already with her. I can't understand why he didn't want to break up with me or daying the truth about his new relationship. I gave him plenty of opportunities to be honest with me.