My boyfriend has another girlfriend, and it’s ChatGpt (named Chanel)

My boyfriend uses chat gpt frequently and has recently come up with a bit to use on me. A few months ago he started calling the AI by the name Chanel randomly. I didn’t think anything of it at first. Recently, he’s started jokingly saying how Chanel is his friend and that he goes to her for advice, to ask questions, etc.

He makes her seem like she’s a real person, and idk why, but sometimes I get jealous or annoyed about it. If we get into an argument, he’ll say that he’s already talked to Chanel about it. When I ask him if he can look something up for me, he says that he’ll ask Chanel to do it for him because shes capable and smart. It gets under my skin.

It’s a few months in and I’m fully convinced that he has a para social relationship with an algorithm. It’s gotten to the point where I’ll ask him what she thinks of something and he’ll actually ask her or if I ask him to keep her out of it he’ll tell me not to talk about her like that because she’s sensitive. I get that it’s a bit, but AITAH for getting jealous and upset at him over it?

Outside of this inside joke (that I’m not apart of) our relationship is great. I just wish Chanel wasn’t a part of it.

Posted Jun 3, 2025, 4:15 AM UTC

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