36 [F4M] CA / Anywhere - Let Me Take You Out Instead

Tired of ghosting, dead-end chats, and praying to the dating algorithm gods for a decent connection? Me too. Let’s change that!

I’m a 36-year-old mixed Black woman in Silicon Valley—plus-sized, short-haired, pierced, tattooed, and frankly adorable. Book lover, weird film aficionado, official ghost summoning theremin player. Very leftist. Very real.

I’m looking for a committed, monogamous relationship. Someone kind, curious, emotionally intelligent, and also equally as tired of wandering the dating landscape. I’m specifically seeking someone 30-42, single, and without children.

Let’s meet for a drink—in San Francisco, Dublin, Berlin, or anywhere else I’m passing through this year.

Interested? Think I’m absolutely nutters for offering drinks to strangers on the internet? Wondering why I travel so much? Let’s grab a drink and find out. ;)