Idk how women who post themselves on the internet do it

I follow a girl on instagram mainly because of her good feminist stances/activism (although her public content was very mixed). Recently she went viral again from a video where she made a joke not feminist related (also another bonus is that she’s pretty) from that video it gained a male following and i can’t help but notice the shift in her comment section it went from women to majority men and now whenever she posts herself she gets disgusting sexual comments from men even tho her feminist stances still haven’t changed. She made a video about how weird those comments make her feel. But their comments still hasn’t changed. in another one of her videos the most liked comment said “Raw and passionate. Next question” it received 19k likes another comment that bothered me said “my proudest nut”. This is disgusting. Why are so many men so disgusting why do they like making women uncomfortable? Especially when she told them it’s weird. In the video she wasn’t even half naked she was covered and just messing around in it. This isn’t a joke this is fucking disgusting. Imagine following your daughter on instagram and seeing those comments from randoms would it still be a joke?

Not trying to victim blame at all but this is why I don’t post publicly on instagram reels (not saying I’m attractive) but still those comments scare me. Women think differently, comments like those aren’t “jokes” to us it makes us feel bad. I would delete my account after that. I would rather get bullied than to receive comments like those something about them feel rapey especially since she’s not consenting to them. Why can’t men act civilized