To the ADHD-moms, how is it going?

Hi there! I’m I have an 11m old son and with a lot of help from parents and my husband and currently not working fulltime I just about manage. My house has become my main stressor though, constantly seeing chaos, chores and never ending laundry. So I get out as much as possible. Because it’s only one child I still have time to do things that energize me and I stay afloat.

Whenever we consider a second child it terrifies me. I just don’t think I’d be able to handle the first few years without having a massive meltdown.

How are you all doing? How do you survive and what keeps you sane?