Feeling shamed and shunned for having this disorder

We've only been diagnosed recently but have been figuring things out for like 7 months now. We just wanna be able to talk about everything we're figuring out about ourselves and just be allowed to be ourselves and be open. But we can't do that at all. Either they don't want to hear it in the first place or they end up clearly uncomfortable or they don't understand and make us feel horrible. We don't know what to do.