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YaztarGazer101

what was your unusual bi awakening?

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i am not talking corn or finding your classmate attractive. what is the most unusual way you realized you were bi?

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mine was when i was filling out a survey for some researchers who came to my psyc class. at the end of the survey, there was a quick identity questionnaire. i filled in race, sex, ethnicity, and then i see sexual orientation. i wasn't quite sure why, but in the moment i wasn't able to just pick straight which is what i thought i was (or wanted to be bc i grew up christian). anyway, they started collecting the surveys and i quickly checked off bi and i kinda freaked out and turned it in.

it was after that that i started to see how everything fit in...for example, not finding really big muscular or masculine looking men attractive. i liked the cutie patooties though, with longer hair and more feminine features. and with women; i liked dark femme energy. i would appreciate women's beauty more, and i would get real shy around women i found attractive. but i only realized that wasn't really straight when i did some reflection lol...thank you survey.

Posted Jun 3, 2025, 7:47 AM UTC

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