I lost hope on him....

Ok, So I talked to him for the 2nd time yesterday night, and I feel like I already lost the hopes on it.

When I talked about love, empathy, trust, compatibility and emotional intelligence in the future in our marriage.

He said, all this are assessments and I should take care of it. All of it I should be assessing. And all these are the terms I got from chatgpt,

I said I'm not taking any words from chatgpt, these are emotions and these are basic a human needs while marrying one. He is just being practical and logical. He said he likes me. I understand there is no love kinda thing between us, but I was hoping for love someday, but I don't think so there is a possibility.

He is more like a person to live a life independently, physically and emotionally. So he is clear about how he don't need anyone. Also when I asked to make few female friends, he was like, I don't want anyone of them, I don't need to understand them and their perspectives. This statement of him has changed a lot. I felt like, he is a man who don't even wanna acknowledge a females perspective of life. He don't want it.

And when I asked, what about me, I am a woman too, u need to understand how my thoughts and perspectives are, he said, "you are here right, I'm knowing u , eventually I'll know you day by day, for that why would I talk to any other women."

Love and trust, when I talked about it, he said, "it's all nothing, all these are the terms seen on assessments online to understand what kind person one is. All these are something else which I don't know."

Why is he even so detached. "I will independently, I don't want anyone and I don't want anyone to blame me or I don't want to blame anyone."

There is more to the story but I don't know how to explain it.