My friends and me think he has a Crush on me

Advice Needed

(People relevant to the post:

-Me = M

  • He = B

  • A friend of mine = L)

So first of all the reasons we think that are:

  1. L and me noticed that he stares at me...a lot...not only in class. L describes his staring as ,,dreamy"

  2. Once in english class our teacher told us to work with somebody we never worked with and B approached me, even tho he had plenty of people to choose and we already worked together once.

  3. One time in music class one of his friends said something about me and B was like "what does M have to do with that?" And I just wonder why do they talk about me at all🥲

  4. A few weeks ago we had sport, but I was sick the day before, so instead of participating in the lesson, I helped our teacher. I had to measure the times from the sprint. B joined me, even though he had only one measured time (which wasn't a really good one btw) and wasn't told to do so.

  5. Yesterday, we had music again (I sit behind B). B and his friends were talking about somebody (I didn't listen so idk who they talked about) and than his friends asked him "wait are you really into her?" and B and one of his friends looked in my direction.

Well you know thinking about him a lot, led to me now having a Crush on him too (1-4 is all before that). My Crush on him started by thinking he's cute and handsome😭🙏 And now...well let's just say L's and my chat is full with me talking (and dreaming) about B.

So yk, I wanted to text him, but I'm a very shy and nervous when ut comes to Crushes. So I asked L to text him and she asked if he wants contact with me and he said "no sorry" (look maybe I'm delulu, but it doesn't mean I have no chance...I think. Also if he's really not into me, why would he behave the way he behaves?).

So in a wave of me being brave and bold I texted B a few days later and asked him why he wants no contact. Well, look, I'm still a very shy person, so yk, I said that L said I should ask.

I texted that at 2.46 pm and on WhatsApp it says he was last online at 2.38 pm and he hasn't read my text since (it's been 19 hours since my message).

Anyway, L says the reason he doesn't answer me is because I said she said I should ask him. And she said "Do I want him or you?" and she asked if I'm stupid (disclaimer: yes).

We don't have school today so I decided I'll probably have to talk to him tomorrow irl.

The thing is, I tried practicing talikg to him with a broom and I couldn't even talk to the broom.

Am I delulu? Does he like me? What should I say tomorrow? Help😭🙏

PS: I wasn't sure what flair to pick, but ig advice needed kinda fits it.

Posted Jun 3, 2025, 7:50 AM UTC

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