almost all the hsv2 influencers are old & still single

anybody else notice this? why would I possibly feel better when the vast majority of herpes influencers with hsv2 are in their late 30s or 40s still actively searching for partnership? I guarantee they would be happily married and be generally happier if they didn't have herpes. they're not an inspiration to me at all, it's like looking at my future of being alone and rejected for so long.