Hosts Cut Me Because They Were Upset
At work today, I've been a top-tier server, one of the stronger ones for sure and have always been good with the hosts.
Today was slow and a few of us were talking and giving each other shit, a host was there, someone made fun of clothes I used to wear and then made jokes about the host. The few of us laughed, I said stop because they were mean jokes, (even though it was jest, and everyone's been friends a long time), but after this I was phased minutes later.
Before other servers who were there before me.
When I asked if it's because I laughed at the jokes, another host said yes.
I didn't think much of it, it was a slow night and while I was shocked I shrugged off as I have a double tomorrow.
But now I'm realizing that I may get fucked over as that host works tomorrow.
She's been known to do this to other servers, known to hold stupid grudges that cost servers money by seating them less.
Any tactful ways I can go about this? Should I confront them?
Posted Jun 3, 2025, 7:55 AM UTC